Should I? We are told not to limit our ambition, and our minds race to becoming President, inventing the next Spanx, or owning a private island in the Caribbean.  Regretfully, we do not immediately consider becoming spouse or parent of the year.   Aside from our misplaced priorities, we have not even been elected as the local dog-catcher, know how to sew on a button, or are still paying the...

What to Do? Now is the time of the year when the gurus tell us to formulate our New Year’s resolutions or goals.  If you are not a goal-setter, I can only say, “In the absence of clearly defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily acts of trivia” (author unknown).  Rather than simply adding my voice to the choir, I want to encourage the prerequisite thinking necessary for...

Really? What a counterintuitive title for a message on generosity.  At the mere suggestion of generosity, we anticipate a monetary solicitation and instinctively look to ensure we firmly fastened our purse's clasp.  However, money may be the last element of generosity.   First, Why… Generosity is alternatively considered a personal obligation or a byproduct of gratitude, but it also has a...

…Gratitude This trite saying, even though true, gets on my nerves like fingernails scraping on a chalkboard (is that still a thing?), especially when I want to wallow in my misery. At the same time, grateful people are psychologically and physically healthier than the ungrateful, making gratitude worthy of pursuit. Whatever For? When asked, our thoughts naturally turn toward our possessions –...

This message is not a tribute to Marvin Gaye’s beseeching ballad or a Cosmopolitan magazine how-to-please-your-lover guide but one designed to stimulate thinking about our sexual indulgences.   If there is ever a subject about which I might feel imposter syndrome, this is it.  Well, here we go… Perception v. Reality When you consider the time invested at the beauty parlor and haberdashery and...